As good people we tend to bend over backwards to accommodate EVERYONE but ourselves.
When is it our turn? When is it about us?
Here’s some advice, actually more of a personal testimony.
I’m an Aquarius, I tend to do everything with my complete heart. I give my all when doing anything, even if it’s simply answering the phone. It’s a good thing and also a bad thing. I’m loyal and committed BUT sometimes people take advantage of that.
I know a lot of people and a lot of people know me. I love that I know all kinds of people, all ages , and all types of different cultures.
There was a time in my life where I couldn’t say no. I couldn’t put my feelings or myself first. I learned the hard way. In the work place, in my personal life, and in my relationship I would always accommodate the other party and pushed my feelings/thoughts to the side. I always thought about everyone else’s feelings before saying something or doing something. That made me become a bitter person. I started to forget about myself and who I was.
After years of doing what people told me to do or what was the “right way” to live I was fed up! I broke! I exploded! That was when I realized enough was enough.
For years I lost the happy soul i was because I let people get in my head. No that does not make me weak, it makes me unselfish. I put others in front of me. I’m not saying I’m selfish now and all I think about is myself but yes I do have “selfish” moments. And that’s a good thing. EVERYONE needs to be selfish from time to time. EVERYONE deserves to fall in love with the person that they are. We are what we make ourselves be. The mind is a powerful thing, learn how to use it the correct way, the healthy way, the happy way….
In a life where everyone is so worried about their social media likes, love yourself and be you. There is no other person that comes close to who you are.